Saturday, January 31, 2009

Today, the hospital made Paige feel as if she were back at school by giving her a half day of Saturday classes.  While she was in physical therapy, her father ran out to Petco to buy collars and tags for the menagerie of monkeys, bears, tigers and dogs sent by you, her very generous friends, so that Paige will know them all when her memory returns.  The cashier looked perplexed at this customer buying a large fistful of collars in a variety of colors and textures in eight, ten and twelve inch lengths.

This afternoon, our good friend, and Nina's mother, Laurie gave Paige a manicure and a foot massage.  Paige told her that this was the first time her feet had not hurt since she has been in the hospital.  Laurie also brought a large bright orange scarf for Paige's mother, because Paige had commented earlier that her mother always dressed in boring shades of grey.

Paige's uncles from Colorado and Pennsylvania, Amory and Chris, and her "twin" cousin Alex then arrived together for a first visit.  We briefed them beforehand in the cafeteria on the hospital's guidelines for relating to a person with a brain injury: remember that the person is thinking in slow motion, speak slowly of familiar people, places and experiences, use simple sentences, limit the visitors in the room, and always be calm, patient and positive.

When we brought them up to see Paige, she surprised us all by greeting each of them with a bright, big smile.  She would summon them one by one, in rotation, into her room until she tired of that formality and came out to the waiting room to greet them all.  She was far more lucid than even the day before.

The other Alex, her great friend from Kent, then arrived bearing news from school, brightly colored gel stickers for her window, and a large folder filled with greeting cards.  On the hospital's advice we had limited Paige to one visitor from school this weekend, but Paige was ready for more.

You were ready for her too.  Dear Hannah wrote that she had worked out on Mapquest that she could make it from Kent to Paige, on foot, in seven and one half hours.

We were able to recount to Paige some of the events of the last two weeks, and particularly the overwhelming outpouring of support in cards, flowers, blog comments and visits that she could not remember.  She absorbed every detail, at times quizzically, and often with a smile.   

We have found peace in the knowledge of your prayers and love and support, the guidance of her great medical teams, a few well learned prayers and a simple faith.  Today gave that peace an even stronger foundation.  It is a day that we will treasure.

4 comments:

  1. Praise Paige on your remarkable progress! It is heartwarming to hear on this cold winter morning. Wishing you another happy day, filled with good, good things.
    Love, Ellen Vreeland

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  2. Paige- We love you and are so thrilled to read of your incredibly fast progress each day. You inspire us all and we can't wait to see you.
    Much love,

    Sally and Henry Blackiston

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  3. Laurie and George:
    Each blog we read brings us more and more hope and joy. The progress seems remarkable and we love the stories of Paige's unexpected recalls and joys. Thank you for keeping us all informed and encouraged. God bless you all.

    Edward and Adelaida

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  4. Hi Paige its so wonderful to have all the good news every day IM SO PROUD OF YOU!!! And miss you SOOOOO Much!! THANK YOU TO ALL of the great Doctors and your wonderful family for keeping us up dated!!!And no surprise to my about your LOVE for chocolate MISS just one brownie before any thing else!!! Or on the run-- And oh ya ive seen the reqest for Pears The bowls will be so full of fruit --LIKE YOUVE never seen before!!! You are so amazing!!! All I have to do is close my eyes and I see your beautiful smileing face!! So you take all the time you need because your worth the wait!!! Well im going to say good-by for now but know im right here and your constantly in my thought!!and PRAYERS!!! LOVE Cindy Olsen

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